Change your thoughts and you change your world
A man
once telephoned Norman Vincent Peale. He was despondent and told the reverend
that he had nothing left to live for. Peale invited the man over to his office.
"Everything is gone, hopeless," the man told him. "I'm living in
deepest darkness. In fact, I've lost heart for living altogether."
Norman
Vincent Peale smiled sympathetically.
"Let's
take a look at your situation," he said calmly. On a sheet of paper he
drew a vertical line down the middle. He suggested that they list on the left
side the things the man had lost, and on the right, the things he had left.
"You won't need that column on the right side," said the man sadly.
"I have nothing left, period."
Peale
asked, "When did your wife leave you?"
"What
do you mean? She hasn't left me. My wife loves me!"
"That's
great!" said Peale enthusiastically. "Then that will be number one in
the right-hand column—Wife hasn't left. Now, when were your children
jailed?"
"That's
silly. My children aren't in jail!"
"Good!
That's number two in the right-hand column—Children not in jail," said
Peale, jotting it down.
After a
few more questions in the same vein, the man finally got the point and smiled
in spite of himself. "Funny, how things change when you think of them that
way," he said.
MORAL OF
THE STORY!
If you
paint in your mind a picture of bright and happy expectations, you put yourself
into a condition conducive to your goal.