What do we give to our parents...
Parents ..the moment you hear this word ..immediately first picture comes into your mind is of yours .. Mom and Dad.. Mumma Papa.. Maa Baba.. they are there in your heart always.
You came to this world because of them.
You learnt to walk because of them.
You learnt to speak because of them.
You learnt to behave because of them.
You learnt to progress because of them.
You learnt to learn because of them.
And at the end they feel proud when you get success.
I tell you one real life story of my friend's parents:
My Friend's father is a bank manager and mother is a housemaker. They have 3 beautiful children two sons and one daughter. They spent their life in breeding their lovely children, leaving apart their own luxury they spent their entire money in their children's study. They made them engineers.
When children were studying, parents proudly said "Our children are studying in best engineering college of the state".
When children graduated, parents proudly said "Our children are engineers"
When children got placed in Companies, they proudly said "Our children in so and so MNCs".
When children went onsite, with heavy heart they waived bye to them, but still proudly said " Our children are in Foreign ".
When children got age of marriage, they happily got them married.
But after marriage.... their children left them. They are in US/UK/Europe/Australia .. around the world but they are not with parents.
Now parents are alone in their big house which once they had build with so much luxury and investment so that they can live happily. They set up AC in their children room's so that they don't get troubled with heat during exams. They set separate rooms for them so that their children dont get disturbed when they are studying.. now those rooms are empty..The house is empty and those parents are lonely. Now their children just visit them once twice in year ..or if in foreign once /twice in 2 years.
Where are we going leaving our parents behind. People will tell excuse we are now engineers and we don't get job in our town/state what to do. Okay you have got to leave your town/state to earn money but why you are leaving your parents, take them also with you. They even equal rights to live with their children as much you want to live with your children.
This shock came to me today ..when my sister told "I don't want my son to become Engineer, else he will also leave us one day. I will rather make him to run a business even with a small shop. This way at least he will be with us always." I could not utter a word. But surely can say, today all small town people want to make their children engineer or doctor but soon days will come when people will say No one will become Engineer in our home!!
Your parents may not live hundred years but their love will ..always in your heart!!! Let them live their rest of life with you!
You came to this world because of them.
You learnt to walk because of them.
You learnt to speak because of them.
You learnt to behave because of them.
You learnt to progress because of them.
You learnt to learn because of them.
And at the end they feel proud when you get success.
I tell you one real life story of my friend's parents:
My Friend's father is a bank manager and mother is a housemaker. They have 3 beautiful children two sons and one daughter. They spent their life in breeding their lovely children, leaving apart their own luxury they spent their entire money in their children's study. They made them engineers.
When children were studying, parents proudly said "Our children are studying in best engineering college of the state".
When children graduated, parents proudly said "Our children are engineers"
When children got placed in Companies, they proudly said "Our children in so and so MNCs".
When children went onsite, with heavy heart they waived bye to them, but still proudly said " Our children are in Foreign ".
When children got age of marriage, they happily got them married.
But after marriage.... their children left them. They are in US/UK/Europe/Australia .. around the world but they are not with parents.
Now parents are alone in their big house which once they had build with so much luxury and investment so that they can live happily. They set up AC in their children room's so that they don't get troubled with heat during exams. They set separate rooms for them so that their children dont get disturbed when they are studying.. now those rooms are empty..The house is empty and those parents are lonely. Now their children just visit them once twice in year ..or if in foreign once /twice in 2 years.
Where are we going leaving our parents behind. People will tell excuse we are now engineers and we don't get job in our town/state what to do. Okay you have got to leave your town/state to earn money but why you are leaving your parents, take them also with you. They even equal rights to live with their children as much you want to live with your children.
This shock came to me today ..when my sister told "I don't want my son to become Engineer, else he will also leave us one day. I will rather make him to run a business even with a small shop. This way at least he will be with us always." I could not utter a word. But surely can say, today all small town people want to make their children engineer or doctor but soon days will come when people will say No one will become Engineer in our home!!
Your parents may not live hundred years but their love will ..always in your heart!!! Let them live their rest of life with you!